What it can feel like

The same argument in different clothes. One of you pushes to talk, the other goes quiet, and both of you leave feeling unheard. Or the distance has grown slowly until you feel more like flatmates.

How we work on it

I don’t take sides or decide who is right. We slow the conversation down so each of you can say what is underneath the argument, and practise new ways of responding at home.

“It should feel like a conversation, not a trial.”

What to expect

75-minute sessions, usually every two weeks, in person or online. We start with one joint session and one individual session each, then decide together how to continue.